Man use the blur brush!! just it will be better

I`m not quite sure what you are getting at with this brushes/pen tool thing.
I use a bit of everything depending on what I want.
When I talk about using hard brushes, it is in reference to this part of the tut, where he adds hard reflections.



This is what I am trying to emulate.

PS: If I disapear its cos my internet router broke, its on the blink.

I am not getting anywhere with this cos I dont know what Im meant to be doing.



nobody is even willing to show me?